//这是gridview的。但是datalist也是这样的。
<script>
function SelectAny(ck)
{
    if(ck.checked)
    {
        var gv = document.getElementById("GridView1");
        var rows = gv.getElementsByTagName("tr");
        for(var i =0;i<rows.length;i++)
        {
            var cid = rows[i].cells[0].getElementsByTagName("input");
            if(cid.length>0)
            {
                if(cid[0].type=="checkbox" && cid[0].id==ck.id)
                {
                    alert("你现在选中的是第"+i+"行!");
                }
            }
        }
    }
}
</script><body>
    <form id="form1" runat="server">
        <div>
            <asp:GridView ID="GridView1" runat="server"  >
                <Columns>
                    <asp:TemplateField HeaderText="全选">
                        <HeaderTemplate>
                            <asp:CheckBox ID="CheckBox1" runat="server" onclick="javascript:SelectAll(this);" />
                        </HeaderTemplate>
                        <ItemTemplate>
                            <asp:CheckBox ID="CheckBox2" runat="server" onclick="javascript:SelectAny(this);"/>
                        </ItemTemplate>
                    </asp:TemplateField>
                    <asp:BoundField DataField="Name" HeaderText="姓名" SortExpression="Name"/>
                    <asp:BoundField DataField="Sex" HeaderText="性别" SortExpression="Sex" />
                </Columns>
            </asp:GridView>
        </div>
    </form>
</body>
</html>