private void textBox_Validating(object sender, CancelEventArgs e)
        {
            TextBox tb = (TextBox)sender;
            if (tb.TextLength == 0)
                tb.BackColor = Color.Red;
            else
                tb.BackColor = System.Drawing.SystemColors.Window;
            Validate();//改成Validating()出错、改成Validated()出错、改成ValidateOK()出错 
                       //求高手帮助 书上写的是ValidateOK()《C#入门经典第五版
        }