.net中怎么把视频显示出来，急！！！

我已经完成了视频的上以及显示，但是显示的样式不好看，
想要显示成土豆网上的那种样式，是不是要下什么插件呀？？？下面是我显示视频的代码：
  <object classid="clsid:05589FA1-C356-11CE-BF01-00AA0055595A" id="ActiveMovie1" width="136px"
                                                height="120px">
                                                <param name="Appearance" value="0">
                                                <param name="AutoStart" value="0">
                                                <param name="AllowChangeDisplayMode" value="-1">
                                                <param name="AllowHideDisplay" value="0">
                                                <param name="AllowHideControls" value="-1">
                                                <param name="AutoRewind" value="-1">
                                                <param name="Balance" value="0">
                                                <param name="CurrentPosition" value="0">
                                                <param name="DisplayBackColor" value="0">
                                                <param name="DisplayForeColor" value="16777215">
                                                <param name="DisplayMode" value="0">
                                                <param name="Enabled" value="-1">
                                                <param name="EnableContextMenu" value="-1">
                                                <param name="EnablePositionControls" value="-1">
                                                <param name="EnableSelectionControls" value="0">
                                                <param name="EnableTracker" value="-1">
                                                <param name="Filename" value='../../images/Video/<%#Eval("upurl") %>' valuetype="ref">
                                                <param name="FullScreenMode" value="0">
                                                <param name="MovieWindowSize" value="0">
                                                <param name="PlayCount" value="1">
                                                <param name="Rate" value="1">
                                                <param name="SelectionStart" value="-1">
                                                <param name="SelectionEnd" value="-1">
                                                <param name="ShowControls" value="-1">
                                                <param name="ShowDisplay" value="-1">
                                                <param name="ShowPositionControls" value="0">
                                                <param name="ShowTracker" value="-1">
                                                <param name="Volume" value="-480">
                                            </object>