Mysql jdbc 连接异常：Last packet sent to the server was 18948 ms ago

com.mysql.jdbc.exceptions.jdbc4.CommunicationsException: Communications link failureLast packet sent to the server was 18948 ms ago.
at sun.reflect.NativeConstructorAccessorImpl.newInstance0(Native Method)
at sun.reflect.NativeConstructorAccessorImpl.newInstance(Unknown Source)
at sun.reflect.DelegatingConstructorAccessorImpl.newInstance(Unknown Source)
at java.lang.reflect.Constructor.newInstance(Unknown Source)
at com.mysql.jdbc.Util.handleNewInstance(Util.java:406)
at com.mysql.jdbc.SQLError.createCommunicationsException(SQLError.java:1074)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.reuseAndReadPacket(MysqlIO.java:3009)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.reuseAndReadPacket(MysqlIO.java:2895)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.checkErrorPacket(MysqlIO.java:3438)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.sendCommand(MysqlIO.java:1951)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.sqlQueryDirect(MysqlIO.java:2101)
at com.mysql.jdbc.ConnectionImpl.execSQL(ConnectionImpl.java:2554)
at com.mysql.jdbc.PreparedStatement.executeInternal(PreparedStatement.java:1761)
at com.mysql.jdbc.PreparedStatement.executeUpdate(PreparedStatement.java:2046)
at com.mysql.jdbc.PreparedStatement.executeBatchSerially(PreparedStatement.java:1650)
at com.mysql.jdbc.PreparedStatement.executeBatch(PreparedStatement.java:1108)
at com.cattsoft.parse.xml.sax.dao.EMSDao.execute(EMSDao.java:202)
at com.cattsoft.parse.xml.sax.SaxHandler.dealRowData(SaxHandler.java:152)
at com.cattsoft.parse.xml.sax.SaxHandler.startElement(SaxHandler.java:72)
at org.apache.xerces.parsers.AbstractSAXParser.startElement(Unknown Source)
at org.apache.xerces.parsers.AbstractXMLDocumentParser.emptyElement(Unknown Source)
at org.apache.xerces.impl.XMLDocumentFragmentScannerImpl.scanStartElement(Unknown Source)
at org.apache.xerces.impl.XMLDocumentFragmentScannerImpl$FragmentContentDispatcher.dispatch(Unknown Source)
at org.apache.xerces.impl.XMLDocumentFragmentScannerImpl.scanDocument(Unknown Source)
at org.apache.xerces.parsers.XML11Configuration.parse(Unknown Source)
at org.apache.xerces.parsers.XML11Configuration.parse(Unknown Source)
at org.apache.xerces.parsers.XMLParser.parse(Unknown Source)
at org.apache.xerces.parsers.AbstractSAXParser.parse(Unknown Source)
at javax.xml.parsers.SAXParser.parse(Unknown Source)
at javax.xml.parsers.SAXParser.parse(Unknown Source)
at com.cattsoft.parse.xml.sax.SaxParser.call(SaxParser.java:37)
at com.cattsoft.parse.xml.sax.SaxParser.call(SaxParser.java:1)
at java.util.concurrent.FutureTask$Sync.innerRun(Unknown Source)
at java.util.concurrent.FutureTask.run(Unknown Source)
at java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.runTask(Unknown Source)
at java.util.concurrent.ThreadPoolExecutor$Worker.run(Unknown Source)
at java.lang.Thread.run(Unknown Source)
Caused by: java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: recv failed
at java.net.SocketInputStream.socketRead0(Native Method)
at java.net.SocketInputStream.read(Unknown Source)
at com.mysql.jdbc.util.ReadAheadInputStream.fill(ReadAheadInputStream.java:113)
at com.mysql.jdbc.util.ReadAheadInputStream.readFromUnderlyingStreamIfNecessary(ReadAheadInputStream.java:160)
at com.mysql.jdbc.util.ReadAheadInputStream.read(ReadAheadInputStream.java:188)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.readFully(MysqlIO.java:2452)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.reuseAndReadPacket(MysqlIO.java:2906)
... 30 more上面就是异常情况：mysql 已经设置21天的wait_outtime;连接方面：没一小段时间都会主动发送一个探测：select 1 from dual;不过没解决这个问题；mysqljdbc超时异常