mySQL无法存储图片

开发一个通讯录，使用mySQL作为数据库，在处理人物头像时，无法把载入图片，mySQL字符集都是utf8，存储类型mediumblob
我试了两种方法，第一种是直接写路径             File file=new File("src\\image\\head.png");
                  FileInputStream fis=new FileInputStream(file);
                  ps.setBinaryStream(10, fis, (int)file.length());
 
第二种方法是使用filechooser选择路径
           File file = new File(m.getPicturePath());
           in = new FileInputStream(file);
           ps.setBinaryStream(10, in, (int) file.length());//其中m为另一个类
             
             //  getPicturePath()方法如下，就是通过文件选择器得到图片的绝对路径                          JFileChooser fileChooser = new JFileChooser(); // 创建文件对话框
                            // 创建文件过滤
                            FileFilter filter = new FileNameExtensionFilter(
                                    "图像文件(*.gif;*.jpg;*.jpeg;*.png)", "gif",
                                    "jpg", "jpeg", "png");
                            fileChooser.setFileFilter(filter); // 为文件对话框设置文件过滤器
                            int returnValue = fileChooser.showOpenDialog(null);// 打开文件选择对话框
                            if (returnValue == JFileChooser.APPROVE_OPTION) { // 判断是否选择了文件
                               String name=fileChooser.getSelectedFile().getPath();
                               ImageIcon icon=new ImageIcon(name);
                               
                               //等比缩放条件
                               int imgWidth=icon.getIconWidth();
                               int imgHeight=icon.getIconHeight();
                               int conWidth=lbl_picture.getWidth();
                               int conHeight=lbl_picture.getHeight();
                               int reImgWidth;
                               int reImgHeight;
                               if(imgWidth/imgHeight>=conWidth/conHeight){
                                
                                 if(imgWidth>conWidth){
                                 reImgWidth=conWidth;
                                 reImgHeight=imgHeight*reImgWidth/imgWidth;
                                 }else{
                                 reImgWidth=imgWidth;
                      reImgHeight=imgHeight;                                 }
                              
                               }else{
                                if(imgWidth>conWidth){
             reImgHeight=conHeight;
             reImgWidth=imgWidth*reImgHeight/imgHeight;
                          }else{
                                reImgWidth=imgWidth;
                        reImgHeight=imgHeight;
                     }                               }
                                File file = fileChooser.getSelectedFile(); // 获得文件对象
                                picturePath = file.getAbsolutePath();运行结果You have an error in your SQL syntax; check the manual that corresponds to your MySQL server version for the right syntax to use near '\"?‘?O?z?xb:???XF??!?^\'_???$è“?é?·
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确实是乱码，这个乱码看起来应该是路径的，因为我选择不同的图片时，这个乱码的长度不一样现在很困惑，希望能在这里遇到高手