User表 friend 是朋友表 查补进去 springmvc + hibernate 
xml<set name="friends" table="t_user_friend" inverse="true" cascade="save-update"> 
<key column="uid"/>
<many-to-many class="User" column="fid"/>
</set>查不进去 
User u1 = new User();
u1.setPhoneunmber("1111111");

User u2 = new User();
u2.setPhoneunmber("2222222");
User u3 = new User();
u3.setPhoneunmber("3333333");

Set<User> arr = new HashSet<User>();
arr.add(u2);
arr.add(u3);

u1.setFriends(arr);

sessionFactory.openSession().save(u2);
sessionFactory.openSession().save(u3);

sessionFactory.openSession().save(u1);
配置 <bean id="userDao" class="com.atschool.dao.UserDAO">
<property name="sessionFactory" ref="sessionFactory"></property>
</bean> <bean id="userManagerBase" class="com.atschool.service.UserManager">
<property name="userDao" ref="userDao"></property>
</bean>


<bean id="userManager" parent="transactionBese">
<property name="target" ref="userManagerBase"></property>
</bean>