无法突破的“software caused connection abort ”

我用mysql5+hibernate3写的程序操作数据库总是出现这样的问题 晕死
怎么办是好啊？
com.mysql.jdbc.CommunicationsException: Communications link failure due to underlying exception: ** BEGIN NESTED EXCEPTION ** java.net.SocketException
MESSAGE: Software caused connection abort: socket write errorSTACKTRACE:java.net.SocketException: Software caused connection abort: socket write error
at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite0(Native Method)
at java.net.SocketOutputStream.socketWrite(SocketOutputStream.java:92)
at java.net.SocketOutputStream.write(SocketOutputStream.java:136)
at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flushBuffer(BufferedOutputStream.java:65)
at java.io.BufferedOutputStream.flush(BufferedOutputStream.java:123)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.send(MysqlIO.java:2689)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.send(MysqlIO.java:2618)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.sendCommand(MysqlIO.java:1551)
at com.mysql.jdbc.MysqlIO.sqlQueryDirect(MysqlIO.java:1665)
at com.mysql.jdbc.Connection.execSQL(Connection.java:2978)
at com.mysql.jdbc.Connection.execSQL(Connection.java:2902)
at com.mysql.jdbc.PreparedStatement.executeInternal(PreparedStatement.java:930)
at com.mysql.jdbc.PreparedStatement.executeQuery(PreparedStatement.java:1024)
at org.hibernate.jdbc.AbstractBatcher.getResultSet(AbstractBatcher.java:120)
at org.hibernate.loader.Loader.getResultSet(Loader.java:1272)
at org.hibernate.loader.Loader.doQuery(Loader.java:391)
at org.hibernate.loader.Loader.doQueryAndInitializeNonLazyCollections(Loader.java:218)
at org.hibernate.loader.Loader.doList(Loader.java:1593)
at org.hibernate.loader.Loader.list(Loader.java:1577)
at org.hibernate.loader.criteria.CriteriaLoader.list(CriteriaLoader.java:111)
at org.hibernate.impl.SessionImpl.list(SessionImpl.java:1322)
at org.hibernate.impl.CriteriaImpl.list(CriteriaImpl.java:300)
at org.hibernate.impl.CriteriaImpl.uniqueResult(CriteriaImpl.java:433)
at dao.AdminDAO.selUserByNameAndPassword(AdminDAO.java:178)